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Blog posts : "Grammar"

stand vs stance

Think of "taking a stand" in a military type of way.

I can't let this happen.  I'm going to make a stand.

Stance can mean literally; how you stance or figuratively; "where you stand" on an issue.

Tell me your stance on the better Starfleet captain; Kirk or Picard? (Picard, no doubt!)

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some time vs sometime; some day vs someday

This is just a matter of being specific. If you are referring to a particular point in time (or day) you want to keep them as two sepereate words.

Pick some day that will work for you.

If you are referring to some indefinite time (or day) in the future you'll want to make it all one word.

We'll …

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swim vs swam vs swum

These are similar to "shrink", "shrank" and "shrunk".

swim is present/future tense.

I swim in the pool.

She will swim in the pool.

swam is simple past tense

I swam in the pool.

She swam in the pool.

swum- must have a helping verb "have" or "has"

I have swum in the pool.

She has swum in the…

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so vs very

Contrary to popular belief "so" does not mean the same thing as "very".


  • You are not just "so excited".

  • You may be "very excited".


  • If you want to use "so" you have to say what the effect of being "so..."is.

    I was so thrilled you were coming that I cleaned the whole house.


  • If you are going to u…
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    skiddish vs skittish

    I'm not sure if people get the image in their heads that if you are nervous you are likely to panic and run away really fast leaving skid marks hence the word "skiddish" but this isn't correct. The correct word is "skittish".

    shutter vs shudder

    shutter- is a blind for a window or part of a camera

    shudder- to tremble in fear; I shudder at the thought.

    seem vs seam

    seem- (a verb) appear to be;

    You seem upset.

    seam- (a noun) where to things come together; the seam of your pants; burst at the seams

    has vs have vs had

    In this case, "has" and "have" are both "helping verbs" they are to be used with other verbs in order to form different tenses. They are not used to show possession (for the sake of this conversation).


  • I have- you have-we have- they have



  • he has-she has-it has


  • I have helped you wash the dishes.

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    took vs take vs taken vs tooken

    First. "tooken" isn't a word so you can stop trying to figure out when to use it- just don't.

    take- is present and future tense

    I will take my books to school. I am taking my books to school.

    took- is past tense

    I took my books to school.

    taken- is also past tense but MUST be used with a helpin…

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    skulking vs sulking

    skulking means to slink or move about steathily

    Call the cops; there is someone skulking around the neighbors house.

    sulking means to pout or be out of sorts

    She's upset that I told her she couldn't go; so now she's sulking in her bedroom.

    spicket vs spigot

    The faucet in your sink has a "spigot".

    "Spicket" is not a word.

    soul vs sole

    Your soul is said to be your spirit.

    The bottom of your foot is you sole.

    If you are the only one left you are the sole survivor.

    shrunk vs shrank

    Here's another instance where pop culture has led us astray.

    Honey, I Shrunk the Kids should actually be Honey, I Shrank the Kids.

    shrank is the past tense of the verb "shrink" (it has already happened)

    I shrank your favorite sweater in the dryer.

    shrunk is the past participle of "shrink" (it re…

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    sacred vs scared

    This is usually only a problem when someone is going too fast and not taking their time. When they are pronounced properly there is little trouble knowing the difference.

    sacred- blessed, holy

    scared- afraid

    upto vs up to

    "up to" is always two words;  like "a lot"

    utmost vs upmost

    If you have an "extreme" amount of or the "highest degree" of respect for someone you have the "utmost" respect for them.

    unkempt vs unkept

    If you look sloppy or messy you are "unkempt" not "unkept".

    undermind vs undermine

    If you weaken something you "undermine" it.

    If you did it in the past you "undermined" it.

    There is no such thing as "undermind".

    undoubtably vs undoubtedly

    Undoubtedly, "undoubtably" isn't a word.

    thaw vs dethaw vs unthaw

    thaw means "to unfreeze" or "to warm"

    So to "dethaw" or "unthaw"  something would actually mean to freeze it which is surely not what people mean.

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